What age do boys prefer their dad?

What age do boys really prefer their dads? That’s a question I’ve been pondering, especially since becoming a dad myself. Okay, so that whole “age three” thing? It’s kinda true, but it’s way more nuanced than that. I mean, before three, my little guy, Liam, was totally Mom’s boy. Honestly, it hurt a little. Like, a lot. I’d try to play with him, read him stories – he’d just wriggle away, back to Mom’s arms. Remember that time I tried to build a Lego castle with him and he just screamed and crawled to his mom? Yeah. Brutal.

But then, around three, bam! It was like a switch flipped. Suddenly, I was the cool dad. The one who could build the best Lego castles (he still wanted his Mom to do it first though, lol). He wanted to wrestle, go on adventures in the backyard – you know, all the stuff I’d been dying to do with him. It was such a relief, I almost cried. Those early days, those incredibly tough early days, suddenly felt…worth it. Like, okay, I made it through the hard part, our bond is actually happening. This wasn’t just some fleeting phase, it was real. The way he looks at me now, beaming, that’s the payoff, y’know?

So, yeah, to all the dads out there struggling through the early years, don’t give up. It really does get better. I read somewhere that this shift is linked to their cognitive development, something about object permanence and…blah blah blah…the point is, it’s about their understanding of relationships growing and changing. But I really wouldn’t have gotten that from the research alone – it’s about that special bond, you know? Hang in there. It’s amazing.