Is it rude to not tip on top of gratuity?

Ugh, this whole tipping thing is such a minefield, isn’t it? So, is it rude not to tip on top of an automatic gratuity? I mean, honestly, my first thought is, “What’s the point?” Right? Like, they already added 20%, which, let’s be real, is usually pretty generous, especially for a larger group. Remember that time we went to that Italian place for my sister’s birthday? Eight of us, it was chaotic, but the service was…fine. They automatically added the 20% gratuity, and I felt completely justified not adding anything extra. No one batted an eye.

I guess the answer is no, it’s not rude. The automatic gratuity is supposed to cover the standard good service, you know? Adding more is, of course, totally acceptable if your server went above and beyond – like, remember that time Sarah’s water glass was constantly full, even before she was done with the last sip? That’s extraordinary service! Tip away, my friend! But if it’s just…okay…then, well, why waste the money, honestly? I’d rather put that towards a bigger dessert! It’s just my two cents, anyway. Everyone has their own take on it, I guess.