What to avoid wearing in Vietnam?

What not to wear in Vietnam?

Okay, so Vietnam, right? You gotta watch what you wear, especially at temples and pagodas. Seriously, no shorts, skirts, or dresses. And definitely no low-cut tops or anything showing your shoulders. It's, like, majorly disrespectful, total faux pas. People will be super unimpressed. My cousin went last year, and she totally learned that the hard way.

Don't even think about giving candy to kids in villages, either. It's a bad idea. Really bad. I read this article, it said it can actually cause problems. It's not about being mean, it's about being respectful. You'll get a much better experience if you just don't. Plus, its kinda awkward.

Key things to avoid in Vietnam:

• Inappropriate clothing at religious sites: No short shorts, mini-skirts, low-cut tops, bare shoulders.
• Giving candy to children in villages: This is strongly discouraged.

I saw a blog post, a woman was telling about how she got some seriously side-eyes for wearing a tank top to a temple. Avoid that! She felt real bad after. So yeah, plan ahead!

What not to wear in Vietnam for females?

Three AM. The air conditioner hums. Short shorts? Absolutely not. My aunt visited last year, came back horrified. Said it felt disrespectful.

I cringe thinking about it. Even in Hanoi, the heat is brutal. But still, you know… decency.

Crop tops? Forget it. I've seen it. Tourists. It's just… jarring. This isn't a beach in Miami, or even Thailand.

Tank tops. Same thing. Stick to loose, long sleeves. Seriously. It's practical, too. Keeps you from getting sunburnt to a crisp.

Things I saw:

• Women in inappropriate clothing, looking uncomfortable.
• Locals giving side-eye glances. It's not a judgment. It's a cultural thing.
• My friend Sarah's sandals broke, painful and embarrassing, this happened in 2023. She wished she’d worn sturdier shoes.
• Those flimsy flip-flops? Not ideal for temple visits. Trust me. Choose durable footwear, even sneakers.

Remember this: Respect the culture. It's that simple. This is 2024, and that still applies.

What colors to avoid in Vietnam?

Ugh, Vietnam colors. Okay, funerals. Don't wear red or black. Got it. Bad luck vibes? I think Aunt Minh told me that, like, ages ago.

White, gray, or blue. Write that down. Funeral colors… not exactly party colors, lol. Military stuff? No camo. Easy.

Wait, why no camo? Is it like... disrespectful? Or just… weird? I really need to remember that next time. I'm going in 2024.

• Avoid Red and Black:
  • Funerals, mourning. Super bad juju. Aunt Minh would kill me.
  • Unlucky colors, especially around grieving families.
• Acceptable Colors:
  • White: Purity, mourning, respect.
  • Gray: Somber, understated.
  • Blue: Calm, peaceful.
• Avoid Military Style Clothing:
  • Camo patterns: Why? Political reasons? I don't know, I just need to avoid.
  • Khaki: Similar association to military.
  • Dog tags: Definitely don’t wear those. Cringy.

Additional stuff: Think about the weather too. Light, breathable fabrics. It's gonna be HOT. And maybe learn a few phrases. "Xin chao"!

And sunscreen. OMG, the SUN. I'm so pale.

Can ladies wear shorts in Vietnam?

Ugh, Vietnam. Shorts? It's complicated. I saw a ton of tourists in shorts, mostly near the beach areas. Da Nang? Totally fine. But Nha Trang? Hmm, more conservative vibes. Definitely avoid shorts in temples, obviously. Respect is key.

My friend wore a cute sundress in Hoi An, no problems. But she definitely wouldn’t have worn denim shorts to that ancient town. Total no-no. Think about it; what would you wear to your grandmother’s house? Something similar.

Avoid anything too revealing, period. Seriously. Especially in rural areas. It’s about showing respect, you know?

What else... Oh, I remember seeing this one girl, beautiful silk pants. Elegant! Way better than some of the trashy shorts I've seen on clueless tourists. Should've asked her where she got them.

Long skirts are always safe. Lightweight linen ones are perfect. I bought three last year in Hoi An.

Cover shoulders in pagodas. This is important. You can't just strut around like you own the place, right? It's a cultural thing.

Vietnam's hot, I get it. But think carefully, especially if you are going to smaller villages. I heard horror stories about tourists being glared at for wearing too little. This is especially true for women.

It’s a cultural thing, it’s not meant to be offensive. Just…dress appropriately. It's a simple thing to do.

• Temples & Pagodas: Long pants or skirts, covered shoulders. No exceptions.
• Rural Areas: More modest clothing is preferred. Think loose, flowing fabrics.
• Beach Towns: More flexibility, but still avoid anything super revealing.
• Big Cities: More relaxed, but still err on the side of caution.
• Safe bet?: Maxi dress, sarong, wide-legged pants.

What is not appropriate to wear to a wedding?

White: A given, unless requested. Ivory? Tread lightly. Bride's day, not yours.

Casual is a sin. No flip-flops. Seriously.

Black: Depends. Funeral vibes? No. My aunt Carol wore black. Disaster.

Loud patterns? Headache inducing. Less is more. Always.

Revealing clothing screams wrong intentions. Grandma is watching. Trust me.

Athletic wear…at a wedding? Next.

Denim? Only if you want side-eye. My wedding: No denim. Ever.

Costumes? Nope. Unless it's Halloween. Even then... no.

Some say comfy. I say appropriate. Big difference.

• Wedding Dress Etiquette: No upstaging the bride. Simple rule.
• Color Considerations: Research cultural norms. Be aware.
• Fabric Choices: Opt for suitable materials like silk, lace, or chiffon. No shiny plastic.
• Accessorizing: Jewelry and handbags should complement, not overwhelm.
• Footwear: Comfort and elegance. Leave the sneakers at home. Unless...
• Dress Code: Always check the invitation. Follow it.
• Gifts: Promptness is key. Registery preferred.
• RSVP: Do it. Please.
• Plus One: Respect the couple's guest list.

My grandfather always says "Dress like you have some sense". Truth.